Mariachi for your wedding: when they play, how long and what to ask
Published October 14, 2026. Every figure has its source at the end.
A mariachi can be part of almost the whole wedding: the serenade the night before, the Mass, the exit from the church, cocktail hour and the party. The hard part is choosing when, for how long, and what to put in writing. Here we bring together what wedding guides and booking sites say.
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The short answer
- Most often they play during or right after the ceremony, at cocktail hour or at the start of the party, according to The Knot.
- A set lasts from 30 minutes to two hours. If the mariachi plays through the whole party, itâs two to three hours.
- In the US, a short set is charged by the hour, $350 to $650. The whole party can cost $3,000 to $4,000, according to The Knot.
- Book nine months to a year ahead, which is what The Knot estimates for wedding musicians.
- Tipping is optional: $25 to $50 per musician.
Prices by city, in the US and Mexico, are in our other guide: How much does a mariachi, a norteño group or a banda cost?
Moment by moment
The serenade, the night before
The night before the wedding, the groom arrives with musicians to sing to the bride: itâs one of the Mexican wedding traditions in Pronoviasâ guide to Hispanic weddings. Itâs priced as a serenade, not by the hour. In Mexico, Profeco found mariachi serenades from about 1,900 to 4,400 pesos for September 15, 2022, which is high season.
The Mass
There is a Mass written for mariachi, the Misa Panamericana. The bishop of Cuernavaca commissioned it in 1966, and today it is the standard church repertoire for mariachis, according to NPR. It wasnât welcome everywhere: NPR reports that some priests didnât allow it. Before you book, ask your parish whether they allow mariachi at Mass.
The lazo and the arras
Two moments of the ceremony: the lazo is draped around the couple during the vows as a symbol of their union, and the 13 arras coins, blessed by the priest, stand for the groomâs promise to support the family, according to The Knot. If you want music during those minutes, agree on it with the group and the parish.
The exit and cocktail hour
A 30-minute set works as a welcome while guests arrive at the venue. If the mariachi plays all of cocktail hour, itâs usually one hour, followed by another band or a DJ, according to The Knot.
The party
If the mariachi stays for the whole party, it plays two to three hours. Thatâs where traditions come in like la vĂbora de la mar, where guests form a human chain and weave around the couple, and the money dance, where guests pin money on the couple in exchange for a dance (The Knot). If you want the mariachi to play them, tell the group ahead of time.
The most requested love songs
Most mariachis come with their own wedding set list. If you want ideas, The Knot suggests these:
- Hermoso cariño, by Vicente Fernåndez
- Volver, volver, by Vicente FernĂĄndez
- Sabes una cosa, by Luis Miguel
- En tu pelo, by Javier SolĂs
- La mitad que me faltaba, by Alejandro FernĂĄndez
- Paloma querida, by José Alfredo Jiménez
- Sin que lo sepas tĂș, by Vicente FernĂĄndez
- Serenata sin luna, by Pedro Infante
- Amanecà en tus brazos, by José Alfredo Jiménez
Ask for the groupâs song list and mark the ones you canât do without, and the ones you donât want to hear.
What to put in writing
- How many musicians are coming? In Profecoâs survey, most mariachis came with 6 to 9.
- Which moments do they play, and when do they arrive? If they play at the church and the venue, is travel between the two included?
- How many hours are included, is there a minimum, and how much is an extra hour?
- Do they bring their own sound system? It isnât always included.
- How much is the deposit, when is the rest due, and what happens if they canât make it? In Mexico, 32% of the mariachis Profeco surveyed didnât give a contract: ask for one.
- The songs you canât do without, and the traditions you want them to play.
Mariachis on ZONAS
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Sources
- The Knot, Heather Bien, âYour Guide to Hiring a Mariachi Band for Your Wedding,â updated April 2, 2024.
- The Knot, Hayley Folk, âMexican Wedding Traditions to Include in Your Celebration,â updated June 12, 2025.
- NPR, John Burnett, ââOur Soul Music Is Mariachi Musicâ: Houstonâs Mexican Mass,â January 3, 2014.
- Pronovias, âA Guide to Hispanic Wedding Traditions,â accessed October 14, 2026.
- Profeco, âCostos de mariachis, norteños y bandas, 2022,â Survey Department, October 2022.